These are my memories of today's reading....from an emotionally draining but amazing visit with Sandy Wiltshire, a medium who lost her daughter years ago and studied to become a spiritual woman. She did the reading in her house, she recorded it, had lots of kleenex. Her book was the first one that I read after Zack died....I found comfort hearing that she had connected with her daughter and it reaffirmed my belief that there is a heaven. She only does readings for bereaved parents. After 5 months...she called to make an appointment.I'm sure more memories of today's reading will come out later....these are the ones that really proved to me that Zack was there.....and is still very much with us.
- Paul's family came through first, his father's family are with Zack. Foreign element (Jamaica) and mentioned "George"...all of this had deep meaning for me and I look forward to Paul hearing this part.
- Zack was holding an uncle's hand- Paul's uncle.
- Sandy felt heaviness in her chest- there was an issue with a connection (yes- from heart to lungs, a rare issue). And an issue with his neck and balance.
- Sandy said he had trouble speaking, walking, life was hard...but he had a happy life.
- Sandy said he was in and out of hospitals- um..yay.
- She said he passed quickly and easily and he was okay.
- He told her he loved me, hugged me, blew a kiss and said thank you for a good life.
- He smiled a lot.
- Sandy saw him jumping over and over....asked if he had a trampoline. (he LOVED his indoor trampoline)- He told her that I had put it away or that it wasn't out anymore (I have given it to a sweet little girl who is having some delays in gross motor skills)- he was happy I had given it away.
- Sandy saw my Nana....she told her initials of "her girls" and that she was watching them all.
- Sandy said to keep talking to Zack and my Nana- they are listening and helping me through this.
- My Nana told me she was with him....confirming what I already felt.
- Sandy tried to tell the Medium who she was, with a name....she showed her "D-N"...Medium said "Don?", then "Donaldson"....this was my Nana's middle and VERY unique middle name.
- She mentioned there would be a pregnancy in our family (my cousin is trying).
- She mentioned that my Nana was at the wedding for "R-I"....Erin, my sister.
- Nana acknowledged a little boy with a 'J'....I think this is my cousin's little boy who has had a rough start.
- My sweet Grandpa was there, but behind my Nana (just like in life) and my Dad's mom was in the background...as she had died when I was young.
- Nana indicated a "P-T"...like "Pat or Pete"....Pete is my dad's name.
- When I smiled at the information about Zack....he told her that he loved to see me smile.
- He wanted to tell Daddy he loved him and give him a hug.
- He mentioned- 2, double....twins! Mentioned a "J" name and a boy with a school bag (Ty). he was with them and really missed them.
- He was playing with a little girl (we have a young girl who passed on both Paul and my side).
- He was dancing with my Nana.
- He was running (this is how I had hoped he would be).
- He was showing her he "bum scootched" a lot- even though he could move other ways.
- He crawled up the stairs to his room, even though he could walk, Sandy mentioned this was his mode of transportation up the stairs (so true)...he went to his room- he is very much in that room and hears us in that room....that remains untouched.
- Sandy mentioned Sesame Street- what does that mean? I laughed....Zack has seen that I put stickers around his room (wasn't there before he died)...he was happy that I (with Jayden) did that.
- Sandy mentioned Big Bird and Elmo....then said that Zack was singing the Sesame Street song.
- Sandy mentioned a black and white dog.....(as many of you know, we are getting a salt and pepper Schnauzer soon- she was just born). Zack sent her to us, he was happy about this.
Sandy said my Nana was with me and had been for a while, as I was the first born (this is so true...we were close).
I'm so happy that you were able to get comfort from this visit. I want to do it - just not sure how I will handle it.
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ReplyDeleteI read some similar books by mediums after my Dad died but have never had a reading.
What did Sandy know about your family? What information did she have before the reading about family members?
This is so exciting. I'm so glad you shared this.
Would love to hear more details xo
Wow - I can only imagine how emotional this day has been for you....so glad you got some answers from your sweet little Zackie :) xox
ReplyDeleteso glad to hear my Mum was mentioned,and that you felt that Zack was happy.Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteSandy only knew that I had lost a child. I think I might have told her his name. That's all. She did not know about my other boys or anything else.
ReplyDeleteShe told other things that I didn't mention, as they do not "prove" to me that she saw people I love (like I was at a crossroads, trying to find a new direction, I had done the right things for Zack, etc.). While those things were nice to hear, they did not confirm anything for me.
It was amazing.
I remember when Kim passed away...
ReplyDeleteI have several friends who have met with Sandy. She is amazing.
I'm so glad you got to met with her.
If you or Sandy have any interest in leading a group for our new bereaved parents organization, "Helping Parents Heal" please let me know. Here's a link to our site: www.helpingparentsheal.info Thanks, Mark Ireland
ReplyDeleteMy daughter and I had the pleasure of a reading from Sandy in June 2012. What peace and comfort it gave us.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like being able to re-connect with someone who's crossed over. It provides a sense of relief and calmness. I visited a lady in Durham named Truly Medium a while back and she helped out our family immensely. It's certainly a unique gift that has been given to a few!
ReplyDeleteWe would really like to speak to Sandy but can not find her contact information anywhere. Can you help?
ReplyDeleteOur daughter passed away in February 2011. We saw Sandy in October 2012. She did not know anything about us or our family. Sandy talked for hour an half and was 100 % right about everything she said. We are from Europe and she was spelling foreign names!!! Our baby girl was there with her grandpa... Sandy was very specific about certain dates..when she was born, when she got sick, surgery date etc. She saw 3 more little souls that were there with her...we lost 3 babies before they were born and Sandy was right about those loses as well. We are still trying to make some sense and have questions why? Why us again? No medication, meditation, nothing had helped us they was she did with her reading. Today would be our daughter's second birthday and they only way we can get thru this day is by listening to the tape that Sandy made for us knowing that we do dot die when we die....THANK YOU dear Sandy for everything!!! You gift helped not only us but our parents and many family and friends..<3
ReplyDeleteShe can be reached at 905 877 3761....you will get a voice mail...it sounds that she is not accepting any new customers, but wait until the end of the message when she says: if you are bereaved parent, please leave your phone number...she is very busy, but will get back to you.We called in May 2012 and our reading was in October 2012.
ReplyDeleteI know that our little Ema is with us now and always!!!
I also had overwhelming confirmations from Sandy. She produced strange foreign names from my husband's side, and the many repeated names on my side. She told me my father was with me when we were packing and unpacking, jockeying between two houses. My father accurately told her how many children he had, and that he was there to guide my son when he died. She accurately described some of my father's personality quirks. But I was there for my son, who also described several events he had "attended" with me after he passed, and accurately named three of his uncles, his girlfriend, his sister and brother. After seeing Sandy, I no longer feel lost. The grief persists, but connecting with my son and learning that he is with me always was an unimaginable gift, and like Sandy says, "its all we've got".
ReplyDeleteI also had overwhelming confirmations from Sandy. She produced strange foreign names from my husband's side, and the many repeated names on my side. She told me my father was with me when we were packing and unpacking, jockeying between two houses. My father accurately told her how many children he had, and that he was there to guide my son when he died. She accurately described some of my father's personality quirks. But I was there for my son, who also described several events he had "attended" with me after he passed, and accurately named three of his uncles, his girlfriend, his sister and brother. After seeing Sandy, I no longer feel lost. The grief persists, but connecting with my son and learning that he is with me always was an unimaginable gift, and like Sandy says, "its all we've got".
ReplyDeleteSuch incredible stories from visits with Sandy. Thank you for sharing both your visit and your beautiful children.
ReplyDeleteGood luck in your journey through grief.
Heather
So glad you had this chance to connect with Zack and other family members too. She sounds like a wonderful medium. I have had amazing experiences with readings, but haven't been to a medium for this kind of experience.
ReplyDeleteI lost my daughter on Jan 4 2014 she left behind a 6 month old and 4 year old I now live with my grandchildren and son in law Sandy book was given to me shortly after Lisa's passing I read it and then contacted Sandy she called me in April and had a reading it was the most incredible reading I felt as if my baby girl was right there with me she even told me that she loved the way her jacket looked on me and was glad I was waring it. She told me I was doing a great job with the girls and when we find feathers and dimes which we always do find they are from her.God Bless Sandy she has brought me so close to my Lisa by her incredible validation that even though my daughter is not with us in a physical form she is definitely with us spiritually and because I always talk to her she continues to help me with the girls. My granddaughter always see her and my 5 year old tells me when mommy is right here with us dancing. God Bless you Sandy and thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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